i met a lady who was open to everyone about her extensions. when asked why she did it, she simply answered "i did these for myself. if i don't make myself happy, then who will?"

it was a wake up call for me. 
i spend a lot of my time just waiting for someone and depending on them to come and turn things around for me. when in fact, it shouldn't be like that at all. what she said made it clear to me that you should be in charge of how you feel. if you want to be happy then you have to make it happen yourself. i mean, you're the only one who knows you best and the only one you can trust to not disappoint you in the end. 



i didn't say anything afterwards but i hope she knows how much she's done for me.
i'll never forget what she said.